The Landlord Returns

Please go check out my latest photoshoot for my hubby's porn studio. 

You might not be able to tell it from the preview pic below, but this was my first time shooting with 2 guys, so a bit of a landmark for me.

I've had talks with a few different producers in the past about doing my debut MMF scene but, for various different reasons, this is the first time that those talks actually led to something happening. One of the advantages of being married to the producer, I supposed!

You can find the full shoot over on the Ace Production site and you can follow Ace on Twitter for updates whenever he drops a new episode of any of her porn series, of which there are plenty at the moment, cos he's pumping them out! Which means you hopefully won't have to wait over a year again to see my next appearance! 

And, of course, you can find links to all of my previous Ace Production shoots over on my Portfolio page.

Dress--up Challenge Accepted

I do enjoy a good challenge. Especially one that encourages a bit of creativity and sharing of ideas. However, it's normally me that's encouraging others to put something together to share, such as my annual National Lingerie Day campaign to get as many lovely content creators to post some sexy (but tasteful) lingerie snaps. So when a friend issues a challenge and I get to be on the other side of things, you know I'm going to give it a go!

In this case, Chris (aka Darkox) asked any willing ladies to take a couple of items of clothing that he provided and to just let their imaginations run wild to create some content around those item, with no instructions or guides about what was expected.

Let's just say that what he provided was... quite revealing... Little more than a few straps of leather with some buckles on, some stockings and some shoes. Naturally, I augmented those items with a couple of accessories of my own to make sure that whatever I create still has that signature TWK look. In other words, you know I'm going to include my classic bowtie collar! I also felt that the items would be perfectly complimented by bringing back my goth make-up and hair dye from a few weeks ago.

With my look completed, there was then just the task of finding a suitable spot to shoot the pictures that I would need to post. I went very daring and decided to shoot in the Abyss club, which I felt had the perfect vibe to match my outfit. 

The only wrinkle was that a regular club night was in full swing whilst I was shooting there. Not the usual sort of closed set that I am accustomed to shooting on when doing a NSFW shoot like this one but I supposed half the people there acquaintances or Twitter followers, so it's not like I was flashing anything they they hadn't see plenty of times before... 

Anyway, this is what I came up with...

If you want to see what the other participants in this challenge came up with, be sure to check out the whole Twitter thread, which includes every submissions. 

Or perhaps you should even get involved yourself and add your own submission to the thread! It's an open challenge so everyone is welcome to have a crack at it.

Myth or Truth?

Sex is one of the most natural human experiences, yet it remains one of the most misunderstood. Cultural, religious, and societal influences have created deep-seated taboos that distort our perception of pleasure, intimacy, and even our own bodies.

In honour of World Sex Day, let’s separate fact from fiction by looking at 9 common myths about sex; debunking six common myths that are totally untrue and highlighting three that are actually true.

By understanding the difference between fact and fiction, we can all learn lessons that can lead to better intimacy, stronger relationships, and a healthier attitude toward pleasure. So let's get into it...

❌ Myth 1 - "Only Penetrative Sex ‘Counts’ as Real Sex" 

The Myth: Society often defines sex narrowly and only penis-in-vagina intercourse is seen as "real" sex, ignoring other forms of pleasure.

The Truth: Sex is whatever brings you and your partner(s) pleasure and connection.

• Oral sex, manual stimulation, mutual masturbation, and even sensual touch are all valid forms of intimacy.
• Many women don’t orgasm from penetration alone.
• Expanding your definition of sex can lead to more satisfying experiences.

Broaden your sex play to include:

• Exploring non-penetrative pleasure with a partner.
• Focusing on sensation rather than performance.

✅ Myth 2 - "Morning Sex Is Better"

The Myth: Morning intimacy often leads to more satisfying sexual experiences.

The Truth: It really can... because science!

• Testosterone peaks in the morning for both sexes (highest 7-9 AM).
• Sleep restores physical stamina and lowers inhibitions by reducing prefrontal cortex activity,.
• Morning light stimulates serotonin production, enhancing emotional connection during intimacy.
• Empty stomachs mean better blood flow to erogenous zones.

Make the most of it:

• Set your alarm 30 minutes early twice a week for intimate time.
• Keep lube and condoms in your nightstand for spontaneous mornings.
• Try "sleepy sex" – slow, sensual connection as you wake up.

❌ Myth 3 - "Men Think About Sex Every 7 Seconds"

The Myth: The stereotype that men are constantly horny while women are passive or disinterested.

The Truth: This is a ridiculous exaggeration. Desire varies by individual, not gender.

• Women can have high libidos; men can have low ones—and both are normal. Desire isn’t gender-exclusive.
• Stress, hormones, mental health, and relationship dynamics affect desire.
• Societal shaming of women’s sexuality has suppressed open expression of desire.

Instead of assumptions, consider:

• Normalizing conversations about fluctuating libidos.
• Recognizing that arousal isn’t always spontaneous (responsive desire is valid too).

❌ Myth 4 - "If You’re Not Having Sex, Your Relationship Is Doomed"

The Myth: A "dead bedroom" is often seen as a sign of inevitable breakup, and couples are shamed for not having frequent sex.

The Truth: Relationships thrive on intimacy, not just sex.

• Some couples have less sex due to stress, health, or simply personal preference.
• Emotional closeness, cuddling, and non-sexual touch maintain bonds.
• Pressuring a partner into sex damages trust and connection.

Don't panic, try:

• Discussing needs without judgment.
• Exploring other forms of intimacy if sex isn’t a priority right now.

✅ Myth 5 - "Orgasms Relieve Stress"

The Myth: Climaxing provides measurable stress reduction.

The Truth: Studies show a 50-75% reduction in perceived stress immediately after orgasm

• Orgasms trigger oxytocin release, i.e. the "cuddle hormone", which lowers cortisol by up to 75% and dopamine production, which can improve mood for 2-4 hours post-orgasm.
• Post-orgasm prolactin creates natural drowsiness, aiding sleep.
• The act itself can distract from anxious thoughts through sensory focus, which creates a "mental reset" from anxious thought patterns.

How to take advantage of it:

• Schedule "stress relief sessions" – quick solo or partnered release during high-tension days.
• Combine orgasms with aromatherapy (lavender) for enhanced relaxation.
• Practice "aftercare" – 10 minutes of cuddling post-orgasm to maximize oxytocin benefits.

❌ Myth 6 - "Bigger Penises = Better Sex"

The Myth: Deeper penetration equals greater pleasure.

The Truth: Size can have little to do with sexual satisfaction.

• Most nerve endings in the vagina are in the first few inches.
• Skill, communication, and emotional connection matter way more than size.
• Many people with larger partners report discomfort rather than pleasure.

Rather than worrying about going deep:

• Experiment with shallow thrusting (2-3 inch depth) to maximize clitoral/G-spot contact.
• Master the Coital Alignment Technique.

❌ Myth 7 - "If You’re Not Having Sex, You’re Abnormal"

The Myth: Society often treats celibacy or asexuality as strange or unhealthy.

The Truth: Not everyone wants or needs sex—and that’s okay.

• Asexuality is a valid orientation.
• Some people abstain for personal, religious, or mental health reasons.
• Your worth isn’t tied to sexual activity.

Don't judgment, be mindful of:

• Respecting others’ choices without questioning them.
• Recognizing that intimacy comes in many forms.

✅ Myth 8 - "Sex Gets Better With Age"

The Myth: Long-term sexual satisfaction increases with decades of experience.

The Truth: A greater proportion of older adults do indeed report higher sexual satisfaction than amongst younger adults.

• Studies suggest that 75% of 60+ couples report being sexually satisfied vs 55% of 20-somethings.
• Many couples in long-term relationships learn each other’s preferences deeply.
• With age comes greater experience, better communication and less shame around desires.
• Many report intensified orgasms due to thinner vaginal walls/prostate sensitivity.

Keep a record to prove it:

• Keep a "pleasure journal" to track how your preferences evolve decade by decade.

❌ Myth 9 - "Good Sex Means Simultaneous Orgasms"

The Myth: Movies and porn often depict sex as a perfectly synchronized event where both partners climax at the same time.

The Truth: Orgasm isn’t the only goal of sex—pleasure is.

• Only about 25-30% of women consistently orgasm from penetration alone.
• Taking turns, using hands or toys, and enjoying the journey can be just as satisfying.
• Pressure to perform can actually make orgasms harder to achieve.

Instead of focusing on the finish line, try:

• Extending foreplay.
• Celebrating pleasure in all its forms, even without orgasm.

Kiss N Tell

There has been a recent flurry of new clubs opening, which are all getting heavily promoted on social media. Or maybe they have been around for a while but have only recently started to push the advertising to draw in my visitors?

Either way, I've got a short list of ones that I done want to visit because I like the look of their vibe and I'd like to see if all the buzz around them is justified. Also, I think they all involve people who I am either friendly with or hold in high esteem and have a lot of respect for, so, even if I find that none of these clubs appeal to my personal tastes, it would still be nice to show my face there as a sign of support.

First up on my shortlist was Kiss N Tell, which is, as far as I am aware, only open on Saturday evenings (my time), so it's taken a few weeks for me to be able to make it due to other commitments getting in the way but here we finally are...

Full disclaimer... I had literally no idea what sort of club this was when walking through the door. All I really knew was that there was a strong red and black themed to the place. In other words, I perfectly aligns with my personal brand style. I suppose that was a big part of what made me curious to check this place out. That, and the ridiculous number of Kiss N Tell photos that have been appearing in my Twitter feed in recent weeks from a who bunch of people who I follow.

Honestly, I was hoping that it might be some sort of nasty industrial or something along those sort of lines. The sort of stuff that you would often hear at Nocturnus. To me, that is what the aesthetic of the place instantly brings to mind. 

I wasn't so lucky though. Turns out that Kiss N Tell is a house club, so not my thing at all. Which is a shame for me personally because I think the place was actually really great. I really dig the vibe there, love the lighting, great facilities. Just not my sort of music. It happens though. I appreciate that my likes are not what would be considered mainstream so, more often than not, I'm just going to be tolerating what DJs are playing rather than being able to enjoy it.

And that's not so hard to do when you bump into friendly faces, just like I managed to do. And I do literally mean 'bump into' because I think I clattered straight into the back of Nitro whilst trying (and apparently failing) to navigate around all of the bodies on the dancefloor. 

Anyway, it was nice to see her and to have a friendly little chat, especially since I got a sense that she was in a similar boat to me; really likes everything about the club except for maybe not being a fan of the music. Regardless, it's definitely worth checking out if you find yourself needing somewhere to go on a Saturday evening/night.

Posh sluts night out

My first time attending The Black Rose for a waltz night. I don't know if it's just a quirk of circumstance that I've never inadvertently turned up for one before, or is it a night theme that has now entered rotation? I know ballroom nights have long been part of the schedule so perhaps a waltz night has been included as an alternative for one of those nights?

I'll be honest, my awareness of these dancing themed nights is limited because I tend to give them a bit of a wide berth. I'm so particularly interested in the music (film scores is the one that I truly enjoy showing up for)  so the only appeal to me would be if I had a partner to attend with, otherwise you end up sitting on the side lines, much like how this evening started out for me.

I was eventually saved from being on my lonesome by Jess and Emmy randomly turning up. Don't think I've ever seen either of them at The Black Rose before. But I'm certainly never going to complain about getting to hang out with my favourite girlies. Even if, by turning up as a pair, it still left us at an odd number and, therefore, short one dancing partner.

Not to worry though. We were all more than happy to hang out and enjoy each other's company. Maybe with a little bit of playful teasing in there as well. Mostly about who the biggest slut out of us... (hint - I'm in a very distant last place)

When closing time arrived, Emmy and I hoped in an Uber over to Nocturnus to continue the night there. Jess, on the other hand, elected to head home for a change of clothes first. To be fair, a sensible idea given how grimey and sweaty Nocturnus is, especially when the place is heaving and there is absolutely no personal space to be found. Not really the sort of conditions that I particularly like exposing any of my sexy little dresses to, so I get why anyone would want to change first.

This is Jess we are talking about though. So she wasn't worried about what stains she might collect on her light black dress. I suppose she is very accustomed to going home at the end of the night with stains from bodily fluids on her outfits. Maybe not sweat but you know what I mean...

No, the real reason she wanted to get changed was to look less posh and more slutty. Her words, not mine...

To be fair, even though she changed into a sheer top that let the whole world she her nipples, I still think Emmy was the sluttier of the two Titty Twins; dancing around in a very short dress with no panties underneath, anyone who cared to catch a peek at her freshly trimmed pubic strip and slit, could have easily done soon. And only Emmy knows how much tit tape she must have had to use to stop her booba from spilling out literally every time she moved. 

However, a new addition to our team for the night, Chey, was 100% of the opinion that Jess was indeed the slutiest dressed off us.