Wednesday 24 May 2023

How do you do it?

It's not something that may occur to you when you are horny and just want to make yourself cum but there are a bunch of different types of masturbation.

For that reason, I thought it would be interesting to explore the various techniques and methods of self-pleasure, and provide some tips on how to enjoy them safely and responsibly.

Clitoral stimulation

One of the most common forms of masturbation is clitoral masturbation. This technique involves stimulating the clitoris, which is a highly sensitive organ located at the top of the vulva. Many women find that this is the most effective way to achieve orgasm, and it can be done with the fingers, a sex toy, or even the showerhead!

To try clitoral masturbation, start by exploring your own body. Gently touch the area around the clitoris, and experiment with different types of pressure and speed. You may find that using a lubricant can make this experience more pleasurable. You can also use a vibrator or other sex toy specifically designed for clitoral stimulation, such as a magic wand style vibrator.

Vaginal Stimulation

Vaginal masturbation involves stimulating the internal parts of the vagina, rather than the clitoris. This can be done using the fingers or a sex toy, such as a dildo. Many women find that combining clitoral and vaginal stimulation can lead to more intense orgasms.

To try vaginal masturbation, start by exploring the inside of your vagina. Use your fingers to stimulate the walls, and experiment with different types of pressure and speed. You can also use a dildo or other sex toy designed for vaginal stimulation, such as the G-spot vibrator.

Anal Stimulation

Anal masturbation involves stimulating the anus, which is a highly sensitive area for many people. This can be done using the fingers or a sex toy, such as a butt plug or anal beads. However, it is important to be cautious when exploring this type of masturbation, as the anus is not designed to stretch in the same way as the vagina.

To try anal masturbation, start by using plenty of lubrication. You can use your fingers to gently stimulate the area around the anus, or use a sex toy specifically designed for anal play. It is important to start small and work your way up to larger toys, and always listen to your body and stop if you experience any discomfort.

Prostate Stimulation

This is really just an extension of the previous one as the prostate gland is a small gland located inside the anus, and is sometimes referred to as the male G-spot. Stimulating the prostate can be a highly pleasurable and intense experience. 

This can be done by inserting a finger or sex toy into the anus and massaging the prostate. It is important to use plenty of lubricant and to go slowly to avoid discomfort or injury.

Penis Stimulation

Penis stimulation is the most common form of male masturbation and the one that most springs to mind when talking about masturbating It involves using the hand to stimulate the penis and bring oneself to orgasm. 

This can be done in a variety of ways, such as using a tight grip or a looser grip, using a lubricant or dry, and using different speeds and pressures. Experimenting with different techniques can help to increase pleasure and sensation. You can even use toys such as sleeves or pocket pussies to simulate the feeling of thrusting into a vagina.

Foreskin Stimulation

For men who have a foreskin, the foreskin can be a source of pleasure during masturbation. By pulling the foreskin up and down over the head of the penis, one can create a sensation that is similar to the feeling of intercourse. This can be done with or without lubricant, and can be combined with other forms of stimulation to enhance pleasure.

Toy Masturbation

There are a wide variety of sex toys available, including some that I've already mentioned such as vibrators, dildos and butt plugs. For men, there are also toys such as pocket pussies, strokers, and prostate massagers. Regardless of gender and type of toy, they can add a new level of excitement and pleasure to your masturbation routine.

To try toy masturbation, start by selecting a sex toy that appeals to you. Since there are many different types of toys available, it may take some experimentation to find the one that works best for you. 

Always read the instructions carefully, and use plenty of lubrication to make the experience more pleasurable. It is also important to clean your sex toys thoroughly before and after use, and to store them in a safe and hygienic manner.


Edging involves bringing oneself close to orgasm and then backing off before reaching climax. This can be repeated multiple times, and can lead to a more intense and satisfying orgasm when it finally occurs. 

Edging can be done with any sort of hand stimulation or other forms of stimulation, and can help to increase pleasure and sensation.

Mutual Masturbation

Mutual masturbation involves masturbating with one or more partners, either in person or virtually. This can be a fun and exciting way to explore your own sexuality and connect with others, but it is important to always prioritize safety and consent.

To try mutual masturbation, start by finding partners who are interested in exploring this type of activity. Discuss boundaries and expectations beforehand, and make sure everyone is comfortable with the arrangements. You can also explore virtual group masturbation through online platforms or video chat.

Mindful Masturbation

This involves using mindfulness techniques, such as deep breathing and focusing on the present moment, to enhance the experience of self-pleasure. This can help you to be more present and engaged in the moment, and can lead to more intense orgasms and a deeper sense of connection with your own body.

To try mindful masturbation, start by finding a quiet and comfortable space where you can relax and focus on your own pleasure. Take deep breaths and focus on the sensations in your body, rather than any distracting thoughts or external stimuli. You can also try using affirmations or visualization techniques to enhance the experience.

To summarise

Masturbation is a natural and healthy way to explore your own sexuality, and there are many different types and techniques to try. There is no right or wrong way to enjoy self-pleasure. The most important thing is to always prioritize safety and consent, and to listen to your body and explore your own pleasure in a way that feels comfortable and enjoyable for you.

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