Friday 9 June 2023

Presenting a sexy double bill


Although I frequently get to highlight days that are used to celebrate or bring awareness to important sexual matters, it's not often that I get to deliver a 2 for 1. However, today just so happens to be one of the those days. Perhaps the first actually? I forget...

Headlining today's double bill of sexiness is World Sex Day with the support act coming from National 69 Day. Let's get into both of those...

World Sex Day


World Sex Day is an annual celebration that aims to break down barriers and promote healthy attitudes towards sexuality. It serves as a platform to celebrate and advocate for sexual empowerment, education, and awareness. The day encourages individuals to engage in open dialogues about sex, consent, pleasure, and overall sexual well-being. It seeks to create an environment where people can access accurate information, debunk myths, and challenge societal stigmas surrounding sexuality.


Sexual empowerment lies at the core of World Sex Day. It aims to empower individuals to embrace their own desires, boundaries, and sexual identities without fear of judgment or discrimination. By celebrating sexual empowerment, we foster a society that respects and values diverse sexual orientations, gender identities, and expressions. World Sex Day encourages individuals to explore their own desires, communicate openly with their partners, and make informed decisions about their sexual health.

One of the fundamental aspects of World Sex Day is the promotion of sexual education and awareness. Comprehensive and inclusive sexual education equips individuals with the knowledge they need to make informed decisions about their bodies, relationships, and sexual health. It helps dispel myths, promotes healthy attitudes towards sex, and emphasizes the importance of consent and communication. World Sex Day urges schools, communities, and governments to prioritize and implement comprehensive sexual education programs to create a more informed and empowered society.

Sexuality is often marred by societal stigmas and taboos that hinder open discussions and perpetuate misinformation. World Sex Day serves as an opportunity to challenge these stigmas and create a safe space for conversations about sex. By promoting a judgment-free environment, we can dismantle barriers, reduce shame and guilt, and foster understanding and acceptance. Open discussions about sex help normalize conversations around sexual health, sexual orientation, and relationships, leading to healthier attitudes and improved well-being.


World Sex Day emphasizes the importance of consent and respect in all sexual interactions. Consent is a fundamental aspect of healthy sexual relationships, and World Sex Day serves as a reminder of its significance. By promoting enthusiastic, ongoing, and informed consent, we contribute to a culture that prioritizes the well-being and autonomy of all individuals. World Sex Day encourages open conversations about consent, encourages individuals to set and respect boundaries, and advocates for the prevention of sexual violence.

Another critical aspect of World Sex Day is promoting sexual health and wellness. The day serves as a reminder for individuals to prioritize their sexual well-being, get regular check-ups, and access necessary healthcare services. It encourages individuals to have open conversations with healthcare professionals about their sexual health concerns, practice safe sex, and engage in preventative measures. World Sex Day highlights the importance of destigmatizing sexual health issues and encourages access to healthcare services that are inclusive, non-judgmental, and supportive.


As we continue to evolve as a society, embracing World Sex Day can foster a world where sexual empowerment, understanding, and acceptance prevail. Let us celebrate World Sex Day and work towards creating a society that is free from judgment and shame when it comes to sexuality.

National 69 Day


Although the choice of the date are quite obvious (being 6/9 when using the US date format), the exact origins of National 69 Day are shrouded in mystery, but its roots can be traced back to the sexual revolution of the 1960s. The sexual liberation movement, which aimed to challenge societal norms and embrace sexual freedom, played a significant role in the emergence of this unique day.

The number 69 itself refers to a sexual position where two partners engage in mutual oral-genital stimulation simultaneously. It is known for its intimate and pleasurable nature, symbolizing a balance of give-and-take in sexual encounters. The connection between the number and the act led to the establishment of National 69 Day as a way to celebrate and embrace sexual exploration and pleasure.

Over time, National 69 Day has evolved from an obscure observance to a more recognized event. Initially, it gained traction within the alternative and counterculture communities, with individuals celebrating privately or in small groups. With the advent of the internet and the rise of social media, the observance gained more visibility and spread to a wider audience.


Today, National 69 Day is acknowledged by individuals, groups, and online communities worldwide. It is celebrated through various means, including social media campaigns, educational initiatives, and intimate gatherings. Some organizations also use this day as an opportunity to raise awareness about sexual health and consent.

While National 69 Day has its fair share of enthusiasts, it has not been immune to controversies and criticisms. Some argue that it promotes a narrow focus on sexual pleasure and can overshadow the importance of emotional connection and consent in sexual relationships. Others argue that the celebration perpetuates heteronormative narratives, neglecting the experiences of LGBTQ+ individuals.

Furthermore, critics argue that National 69 Day can be exclusionary and fail to acknowledge the diversity of sexual preferences and experiences. It is important to recognize and respect the boundaries and comfort levels of individuals when discussing or engaging in sexual activities.

To be honest, the reasoning behind these arguments is unclear to me. However you identify; be it straight, gay, trans or any other identity, 69ing is a valid form of sexual interaction. It is not bounded by the gender or orientation of either partner involved. In that sense, it could be argued that it is one of the more inclusive days. For more so than some, such as Handjob Day which is obviously limited to relationships that include a penis or Threesome Day which excludes monogamous couples.


Regardless, to address the concerns raised by critics, some individuals and organizations have sought to redefine the celebration of National 69 Day. They emphasize the importance of consent, communication, and inclusivity in sexual encounters. They also encourage open conversations about sexual pleasure and exploration while emphasizing the need for respect and consent in all aspects of intimate relationships.

These efforts include educational campaigns, workshops, and discussions that aim to provide a more holistic perspective on sexual expression. By encouraging open dialogue, these initiatives hope to foster a healthier understanding of sexuality and promote a culture of consent and respect.

National 69 Day, with its intriguing history and cultural significance, continues to captivate and stimulate discussions about sexuality. It serves as a reminder of the ongoing evolution and diversity of human sexual expression. While it may have its controversies, the day also presents an opportunity for individuals and communities to engage in meaningful conversations about consent, pleasure, and sexual health.


As we celebrate National 69 Day, it is crucial to remember the importance of inclusivity, consent, and emotional connection in all aspects of sexual relationships. By embracing a broader perspective on sexual expression and fostering open conversations, we can create a more understanding and supportive environment for individuals of all orientations and preferences.

So, on this National 69 Day, let us appreciate the curiosity, embrace the discussions, and celebrate the diverse aspects of human sexuality while respecting the boundaries and comfort levels of ourselves and others.

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