Kisses and Showers

A double bill of fun and naughty days to tell you about today; firstly how I participated in Kiss a Ginger Day yesterday and then we'll get onto today's sexy as fuck celebration.

Okies, so Kiss a Ginger Day... Long time readers will no doubt remember me covering this one a bunch of times in past years. Basically, me floating around trying to find willing volunteers who would like to give a cute redhead a quick little smooch.

However, last year, I actually found some success with just picking a spot to loiter and then summon others to me via the medium of social media. I found that that worked reasonably well. Certainly it was better than just roaming around trying to find people. 

So this year, I endeavoured to have a properly prepared kiss-a-thon to collect as many snogs as possible. Starting on Friday, I put out a public announcement on social media that I'd be holding my kiss-a-thon on Sunday to celebrate Kiss a Ginger Day. I had an idea for where I could post myself for the actual event but I held off making that announcement until Sunday morning when I could check that it was actually available. Instead, I just made sure that everyone knew that those details would come later and they should pay close attention to my social media for an update.

Then, Saturday happened... I don't want to go into the gory details but it was not a good day for me. The weight of my depression had been building on my shoulders for a little while and I became very overwhelmed by it. As I cried myself to sleep on Saturday night, I faced up to having to do an 180 and cancel the event that I had announced just a couple of days earlier because I just didn't see how I would be able to handle it in the state that I was in.

Come Sunday morning, I wasn't feeling a whole lot better. I desperately wanted to call the whole thing off but, in the end, my pride at not wanting to backtrack won out and I resolved to at least give it a try to see how I got on.

Luckily, the spot that I had bookmarked in my mind was available. I've been looking for an excuse to hang out at Shinku Red Light District for a while. It's such a wonderful place to explore and had the perfect spot for me to set up an impromptu kissing booth. Also, since it is bizarrely not very well visited, I was hoping my little bit of fun could be an added draw to get a few more people to check the place out.

With that, all that was left was to make the social media announcement about where to find me and then just wait for all those kisses to rain down on me! 

There was certainly a good deal of waiting during the 12hrs that my booth was open for business. By the end of play, as I closed up, I'd received a grand total of 11 kisses. While it was very pleasing to smash my previous personal best of 5 kisses, which I had managed to achieve in both of the past 2 years, it was a little bit annoying that I couldn't have snuck one more in there to make it 12 kisses in 12 hrs.

I didn't mention this anywhere but I also had a secondary target in mind to go along with the total number of kisses that received. Back in 2023, two of the kisses I received were from fellow redheads but that number dropped to just 1 last year. My hope was that I could at least match my personal best for that one, although, as we'll get into shortly, that wasn't to be.

Now, I don't think I've got the capacity to delve into the details of 11 different kisses with 11 different visitors to my kissing booth so I'll just give a fairly brief recap instead...

Kiss #1 arrived quite swiftly after my announcement courtesy of Mr Eastwood. Probably not a big surprise that my first taker was a returning kisser from last year's kiss-a-thon.

To balance things out, kiss #2 came from a first time participant in my kiss-a-thons. Lalicat patiently waited for me to finish with Mr Eastwood before getting her turn. Seeing the potential of a queue possibly starting to form, really helped lift my spirits. In the end, it was a bit of a false dawn but it still gave me hope that I could have a semi-regular stream of kissers.

It was also nice to attract someone who is a long time follower of me on social media but who I had never met or spoken to before. As an introvert, I do find it hard to meet and talk to new people. That is one of the reasons why I enjoy doing events like this so much because it gives me the opportunity to chat with new people who I wouldn't otherwise say a word to. It makes the whole thing that little bit more rewarding on top of it just being a bit of silly fun.

Anyway, I digress, so back to my recap... Kiss #3 was Smirky Phoenix; another participant from 2024 returning for a repeat of last year. Then, a bit of a wait until Lalicat's twin, Leocat, dropped by for kiss #4. That tied it up at 2 a piece between new and returning participants.

Then a bit of a wait for kiss #5. That eventually came from Dom who, was surprising, was the first of my visitors to enquire whether the kiss actually had to be on my lips or whether it could be placed elsewhere on my body. I knew it would happen sooner or later but it made me chuckle anyway. Of course, I insisted on my lips and that meant that I had now equalled my personal best tally of kisses. Now to go one better and break that record....

Instead, another lengthy wait followed Dom's departure, as I restlessly waited for whoever would be that landmark kiss. Time dragged painful slow until my saviour arrived. And it was very appropriate that the record breaking kiss #6 should go to Jess. Not only because it made her the first 3 time returning veteran of my kiss-a-thons, but because it was a kiss shared between two redheads. I feel like that was very thematically appropriate. Plus, she is one of my dearest friends who I love spending time with so it was nice that I could share this achievement with her.

However, before giving me my record-breaking kiss, Jess was kind enough to give me a loving hug as I unburdened myself of some of the sadness that had been weighing me down recently. The waterworks opened as I cried my eyes out while she held me close. And it did me a lot of good to get it out of my system. I often preach about the need to be open about when you are struggling mentally. I don't always find it easy to follow my own advice though and I still tend to bottle things up. This was a good step in me trying to do better.

Between counselling me and then kissing me, this meant that Jess kept my kissing booth occupied for quite a while. Long enough a queue to threat once again. It didn't quite materialise but there was a quick flurry of visitors coming and going. For kiss #7, I had to reassure Maryxoxo that she wasn't interrupting Jess and I when she dropped by and that she wouldn't need to come back later. 

Then, just as I was finishing up with her, I had another visitor arrive ready to be kiss #8. Luckily, I had Jess still loitering around and she was happen to keep Mike Storm occupied for a few minutes before I became available again. From what I hear, she maybe let him have a little bit more than just a kiss. Possibly also a bit of a fondle too. But seriously, who wouldn't want to give Jess' girls a little bit of a fondle. 

I'm digressing again... 

After Mike Storm provided kiss #8, I had to sit through another barren spell as we moved into the evening. I actually thought this might be when thinking picked up a little as my U.S. followers may become a bit more available to join me. It was quite the opposite though. Until I finally got some company from Naughty Clara for kiss #9.

Then, not too long after she departed, I was joined by her wife, Nitro, who helped me bring up the landmark total of 10 kisses. I was so happy to have been able to reach double figures for the first time with one of my kiss-a-thons and I was still hoping for quite a few more before the days end. 

 The completionist in me was also thrilled that I was able to tick off both halves of a married couple. It would have left me feeling a little weird to have kissed one of them but not the other. So that was a big relief! For those of you that are keeping count, that's now 1 pair of twins and 1 married couple that I've managed to complete.

And, on the subject of completing sets, there was still one glaring omission from my list of kissers for the day. Along with Jess, there was just one other person that had taken part in both of my previous kiss-a-thons. Someone who I have spent more time kissing then any other person I could name. And someone who, alongside Jess, is the other half of the Titty Twins. Where on Earth was Emmy?!

I'll admit, I got a bit desperate, worrying that she would miss out on my event. So I started pinging her messages in the hope that it would remind her of what she was about to miss out on. And, eventually, she showed up. Her reward was the longest and most passionate kiss of the day as she became my #11.

Sadly for me, she was the last of the day. Happily for her, that meant there was no pressure to move aside for another waiting participant. We kissed and kissed and kissed some more.

And then she really hit the jackpot. You see, I had secretly been reserving a special treat for whoever was my last kiss of the day. With it being apparent that that honour would fall to her, I invited her to join me in the shower to help me get freshened up before calling it a night and heading home.

Of course, this was really just an excuse to take some saucy pics that lead into the second part of the double bill that I wanted to mention to you today; Sex in the Shower Day!

Now, we didn't have sex. That isn't what my kiss-a-thon was about. But there was plenty of kissing as we soaped each other's bodies. And definitely lots of rubbing our bodies against each other to give them a good scrub clean, making sure that no spot was left unwashed.

And, since I wasn't expecting to get any other shower action to tell you about, I still think its a more than satisfactory way to segue from telling you about Kiss a Ginger Day to Sex in the Shower Day. Especially since I fucking love hot, steamy shower sex and there is no way that I'm going to skip an opportunity to highlight that one for you. 

Actually, I don't even need to try to justify it like that. I can go one better because, as an alternative to Sex in the Shower Day, some peeps choose to promote today as Shower Together Day instead, which ties in perfectly with what Emmy and I did. So let that be a little preview for you as to how you could also celebrate today.

Oh, and when we were done washing each other's bodies, we took our time taking turns to dry each other off. Hands sometimes lingering a little longer than necessary when patting down wet bums and boobs with our towels.

So there you are; go forth and fuck in the shower as much as you can today! Or just share a shower with someone you care for and give them a loving scrub.

Right, that brings me to the end of what I wanted to tell you all about those two fun and naughty days that I love so much. Somehow, my "recap" ended up being quite lengthy so I don't want to keep you much longer, except to say a big thank you to everyone who took part. 

As I mentioned, I wasn't in a good place mentally and I came so close to calling the whole kiss-a-thon off at the last minute. I'm so glad I pushed myself to go through with it though. Everyone was so kind and friendly to me. I got to meet so new people. My heart got warmed by some the extraordinarily nice things people said to me. I smashed my goal for number of kisses. 

But, most importantly of all, you all gave me my smile back and, for that, I am so, so grateful. Thank you.

Give Me Kisses

Last year's Kiss a Ginger Day mostly consisted of me pestering friends and trying to convince them that they should give me a kiss. On one hand, it was fun just to be able to take part and celebrate the power of being a redhead (yes, technically all redheads are fair game on Kiss a Ginger Day, not just gingers), but on the other had, it also felt a little contrived or like I was cheating a bit.

So, for this year's Kiss a Ginger Day, not only was my goal to beat my total of 5 kisses from last year, but I had to do so by letting people come to me rather than me hunting them down and badgering them for a kiss. 

Of course, that would only work if people knew that they should come find me. So I put out a bunch of tweets to alert everyone to the fact that it was Kiss a Ginger Day and that I would be stationed at the Erotic Bathhouse where they could all come and form an orderly queue for a quick snog.

And then I waited... and waited... 

Eventually, Erotic Bathhouse host, Ember, was free to get me off the mark. She totally has the hots for me and routinely tries to talk her way between my legs so I knew she wouldn't pass up the opportunity to get a little bit intimate. The only surprise was how long she kept me waiting.

Obviously, she was naked and she insisted that I would get more suitors approaching for kisses if I was too. Suspicious that this was just a ploy to perv on me, I was reluctant at first. The lack of any sort of queue forming forced me to confront the truth that she may be right. A compromise then; I'd take one article of clothing off for every person that kissed me.

More tweets went out to notify the world of this new policy and then it was just a waiting game to see who would be lured in by this promise. 

As I patiently waited, I allowed Emmy to, not only choose which article of clothing would come off, but to be the one to take it off. Interestingly, she went for my skirt before making a cheeky enquiry about whether giving me another kiss from her would count towards more clothes coming off. 

I think she knew the answer but wanted to try her luck anyway. Obviously the answer was "no" but I didn't discourage her for kissing me some more to kill the time whilst awaiting my next kisser. 

And, my social media campaign then finally started to gear some fruit as TaliaVonHydra arrived and brought my tally to two.  I was feeling pretty good that she would just be the tip of the iceberg and that more would soon follow.

Once again, though, there was no sign of a queue forming, so I was happy to let her kiss me for as long as she wanted to. And she took full advantage of that. So much so that it was tricky to find a moment where out lips parted long enough for me to pull my top off over my head to leave me down to just my bikini. 

Surely, the promise of me having to reveal either either my perky boobs or my juicy, tight cunt would be enough to attract more kisses?.... Err, no. I stood there for what felt like an eternity waiting for another kiss. It began to feel like a futile exercise and one that I should give up on. 

Then, just as I started to gather up my discarded clothes to at least take a break from my kissing station, Jess arrived to give me renewed hope and vigour. Maybe a little too much vigour as my hands couldn't resist wandering across her naked body as we passionately made out. It's not often that I have an excuse to play with her wonderful titties though. I wasn't going to pass up this opportunity!

The feeling was reciprocated as Jess selected my bikini top to be the next item of clothing to come off. Like Emmy, she was more than happy to do the honours of taking it off for me, freeing my boobies to smush against hers.

It was honestly getting a little too heated so I had to exercise some self-restraint and call it off there, even if I could have quite happily continued to swap saliva with her. Jess trying to tug my bikini bottoms off prematurely told me I had to get things back under control though.

Things then became pretty quiet for a while. Even though Jess hung around, meaning there were now two sexy redheads wearing just a pair of bikini bottoms between them and waiting for kisses, we didn't get any interest.

Jess eventually had to depart because of other plans she had but I was determined to hang in there. Although I was bracing myself for failure in my attempt to surpass last year's 5 kisses, I wasn't going to give up just yet, even if my confidence was not exactly high.

Thankfully my perseverance was actually rewarded. Smirky Phoenix, who had bee chilling in the bathhouse for most of the evening, approached and enquired about whether the things he'd been seeing on social media about Kiss a Ginger Day were true. Naturally, I confirmed that it was all true and invited him to join in. 

He didn't need a second invite as he pressed me up against the wall and shoved his tongue down my throat. It was delightful and a relief for me to finally have a kiss from a guy on the board. Considering I identify as straight, I had been very conscious of the fact that until now, all of my kisses so far had come from other women. 

You know, I don't want to give peeps the wrong idea about me or anything but It does often seem that I have more female admirers than male. Or maybe the ladies are just less shy in telling me about it. Either way, Kiss A Ginger Day is a nice opportunity to give something back to them by letting them have at least a little bit of fun for me for once.

That said, the one benefit of making out with women is you'll never find yourself getting poked by erections when your partner gets a little over-excited. And I could certainly tell that he was getting very excited. Especially, when I allowed him to slip my bikini bottoms off, finally getting me naked. A shame that Emmy was no longer around to see he wish finally realised.

I think the glory of my bare bod was a bit too much for Smirky and he had to go for a cool off in one of the pool. He was pitching quite the tent in his trunks whilst doing so. Thankfully very respectful though. For sure, many guys in his position would have tried to push for more. Tried to convince me to let him have more than a kiss. There was none of that. Like I said, very respectful and I appreciated that immensely.

Something I didn't appreciate so much was the long wait for anyone else to join. I'm pretty sure that my wait for my next kiss was the longest gap between kiss of what turned into a marathon effort to beat last year.

In the end, I resorted to ask some random bather if he would like to give me a kiss. I get the impression he felt a bit awkward about the whole thing, just giving me a rather tentative peck on the check. They all count so I was happy to take what I could guess. Especially since that brought me level with last year on a total of five kisses.

I was actually more than prepared to just make do with that as I didn't expect to get any more kisses. Despite my efforts (and also the help of some others) to drum up some interest in my celebration of redheads, the Erotic Bathhouse was basically empty now. Just a few random bathers who would occasionally come and go.

It's worth point out that I'd been manning my kissing station for probably around 10 hours, so my feet were really starting to kill me by now. That's quite a while to spend on your feet, especially when barefoot of stone floors.

I was very happy to get one final visitor before I called it a night though. Mr Eastwood, who you may know from Hustler Productions, stopped by just to say hello. Seemed like he didn't even know what I was up to until I very excitedly explained it to him. Suffice to say, he was quite keen to help me move passed my score from last year.

He was also very considerate of my aching feet and had no problem with my request for us to take a weight off and sit down for our kiss. Actually, as our lips pressed against one another, he gently laid me back and climbed on top. I don't know which was more heavenly; the kissing or the being about to lay back and relax after all that time on my feet.

Much like Smirky, he was clearly enjoying it very much as well. So much so that his hands couldn't resist starting to wander across my soft skin. I didn't mind until on started to creep betwen my legs. I swiftly relocated that hand a little higher up to my chest. He'd have to be satisfied with a handful of boob instead. He got the message and behaved himself after that.

Once he was done, I hung around for a little while longer just in case I could snatch one more cheeky kiss. Realistically, I wasn't expecting that to be it for the night and that was how things played out. It had been a long session but I'd managed to complete my goal so it was with no regrets that I could then call it a night.

Now I get to look forward to next year's Kiss a Ginger Day and seeing if I can get even more kisses. I would also like to share more kisses with other redheads next year. 

Last year I managed to snag Jess and Reena but this year I was down to just Jess. It's important to share some love as well as receive it, so that will be my other goal for next year; to give at least 2, but preferably more, redheads a little kiss.

I can't wait!

Kiss a Ginger Day 2023

The origins of Kiss a Ginger Day are not entirely clear, but it is believed to have started as a social media movement in response to a hair colour-based bullying that some people with red hair have experienced. The idea behind the holiday is to celebrate and appreciate people with red hair, and to raise awareness about the negative stereotypes and discrimination that some redheads have faced.

The day is typically marked by people posting pictures of themselves or their loved ones with red hair on social media, using the hashtag #KissAGingerDay. People are also encouraged to give redheads in their life a kiss or a compliment, as a way to show appreciation and support.

However, it is worth noting that some of people with ginger or red hair, do not feel comfortable with this day and may find it uncomfortable, or even offending. In that sense, it's important to respect their feelings and not force any physical or emotional expression on them, even if it comes with good intentions. Remember to ask for consent and to respect personal boundaries.

It's also important to note that gingerism is considered as a form of discrimination, which means that is not okay to mock, tease or make fun of someone because of their hair colour. I've always found it somewhat ironic that so many women choose to artificial turn themselves into redheads despite gingers getting teased so much. 

I suppose the old-fashioned bad reputation that gingers, and by extension all redheads. got is slowly fading away and people are finally realising how fucking sexy they are. About time if you ask me!

But one thing bothers me; where are all the cute redheaded guys for me to kiss on Kiss a Ginger Day, ? 

Are they still trying to hide their true nature? Because they shouldn't! Redheads are amazing, which is why they get their own day to be celebrated and appreciated.

Fun fact - Red heads with blue eyes are the rarest combination of hair and eye colour, making up just 1% of the world's population. If that doesn't make them special, I don't know what does!

So what are you waiting for? Give a redhead that is dear to you a kiss to shown them how loved and cared for they are!

It doesn't even have to be a romantic or passionate kiss. Sure, if you have a loved one with whom that would be appropriate, then go for it! But a simple peck on the cheek for a dear friend or family member will also go a long way towards telling them they are valued and loved.

And remember, Kiss a Ginger Day is not just strictly for gingers. The day can and should be celebrated for all of the redheads out there. 

Kiss a Ginger Day 2022

Contrary to what some would have you believe, gingers do not lack a soul. And they have not been put on this earth for you to tease and make fun of. They are all human beings with feelings that get hurt by the endless torrent of ignorant and childish jokes that some of them are victim to.

If you are guilty of such meanness then maybe Kiss a Ginger Day is your chance to start making amends. Everyone needs to be shown some love and gingers are no exception to that. You can show a ginger that you know just how special they really are with a quick kiss. It can be a romantic kiss on the lips or it can be a loving kiss on the cheek. The important thing is that it is made with sincerity.

And, if you are a ginger that has been subjected to ridicule based only on the colour of your hair I say this, do not let anyone ever tell you that you are somehow less or inferior because of your vibrant hair. You, and all our other fellow redheads for that matter, are beautiful human beings and anyone who cannot see that should be pitied.

P.S. Please always seek consent before kissing anyone.

Kiss a Ginger Day 2021

I was aware that it was Kiss a Ginger Day. a day inaugurated a little over a decade ago in response to the thoroughly reprehensible Kick a Ginger Day, but I always took it for granted that it was targeted specifically at those among us who are true gingers. As a non-ginger redhead (my natural colour is auburn), that meant it was only a day for me to show my love and appreciation for gingers.

But apparently that is not so at all. According to someone who claims to be an expert, it extends to all redheads. Now this was news to me and I'm more than a little sceptical that this wasn't just a cheap bit of deceit in order to to get me to consent to receiving a kiss. But consent, I did. Just to a little peck on the check mind. I wasn't going to make out with a bunch of randoms just because of the colour of my hair. That said, I did collect a few more quick kisses throughout the day.

Now, if you want to join in in celebrating Kiss a Ginger and the wonderful vibrancy that gingers (and other redheads) bring to the world, just remember to be respectful and to always make sure it is a consensual kiss. It is not is about you and what you want. Or about using it as a cheap excuse to take advantage of anyone, It is about them and showing them how loved and cherished they are after. So if you are in any doubt at all, ask permission. 

And to my fellow redheads out there, I say this. You are all special. You are all amazing. You are full of life and have massive souls. Don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise. And if anyone does try? Then they are just a fucking dipshit and their idiotic ideas have no value whatsoever so don't let them get you down. I love you all.